Be Still and know that I am God, Psalm 46:10

I'm trying to learn to be still but it's a challenge.

Blaze however, seems to have mastered it effortlessly with her stuffed little buddy here.

This past week was a hard one. We enjoyed Thanksgiving with Emil's side of the family and it was nice to get together but thoughts naturally turned to missing Kai and that was difficult. I am so thankful for Emil and the love that we share. He is amazing.

On Friday I pulled out the Christmas tree and put it up. (We'll trim it tonight for family night.)I pulled out the Willow Tree Nativity that I gotten over the years and put it up on the bookcase. This is where it's gone every year and I do so enjoy seeing the different nativities that I have being displayed that way come December.

I space them out and arrange them just so.(Evenly spaced over the three sections. Shepherds in the left section, Wise Men to the right and Mary, Joseph and Jesus in the center.) It always occurs that one of the little kids will rearrange them and then I have to come back and do it over again. This year I was thinking that it wouldn't be a problem since it was usually Kai that I would discover rearranging.

Later on that night, when I was visiting with a friend, Noah caught my eye. He was busily cozying everyone closer to Jesus, Mary and Joseph in the Nativity.

It seems that children of all ages always want to see everyone in the nativity as close to the Christ child as possible. So for the first time I'm not rearranging the nativity. I'm trying to be still and know what my 9 year-old Noah already knows. We all should want to be as close to Christ as we possibly can be.

Correction

Emil is making me post a correction. He was appalled when he saw a picture of his garage. He said I had to tell everyone the first and second picture posted are after we emptied everything out of his cabinets that we were storing things in and got rid of them. (I think I made that perfectly clear in my second paragraph but he still is making type this disclaimer.) So there you are my sweet. Your reputation is cleared. You are officially not a garage piggy! XXXOOOO

Rain, Rain, go away!

This past week was very busy. Monday I took Kirstin back into the Dr.'s for a bad cough. Turns out she caught a cold after the flu. She's just lucky like that I guess....

Wednesday Emil decided to try to do his garage. Here's what we're working with.

We need to be able to park one of the cars in the garage. With Emil M. driving it's getting very tough on our lawn to keep having to drive through it so we needed to buy some cabinets and clear out things.

He did have 3 large cabinets from the Coast Guard base and a particle board cube shelving thingy that he had built but it just wasn't cutting it so we got some new cabinets. We painted the floor and worked on that the entire time the Nor'easter was howling.

I thought that it might be fun to climb the rock wall with all the water around it. That way if you fell it would be a bit splashy!

Here's the view from the back door. We will be drying out for weeks! They're calling for rain this weekend too. Lucky we have the canoes! Of course I needed to bake Sticky Buns on Friday when I found out there was no school again. It was a strict case of food therapy I promise you. They were so good. I ate way too many. This was the pre-rise shot.

I had to take Kirstin back into the Dr. on Friday because she had Pink Eye. (Mono anyone? Oh Kirstin, you'll take a case of that? Sure, why not, you've had everything else!) She's been sick for about 2 weeks and I'm going crazy. Since she was contagious I wouldn't let her go to any friends houses and it was about to kill us both. I could not send her back to school fast enough this morning!

It wasn't all bad though and Emil and I really did make quite a dent in the garage. We still need to finish up a few things but it's looking quite a good bit better. I did tweak my back while working on the floor so I'm going to the chiropractor tonight for the first time. Hope it helps.

My Dad had to have surgery but he's on the mend. I'm so thankful that my sister was able to go be with my Mom for a little while. I have a great family. I couldn't ask for better.

Just the Facts Mam!

Was that Dragnet? I'm not sure but I know it was a police show. Noah decided to be a FBI agent this Halloween. Super simple costume! Church clothes, shades, a concealed weapon and an official badge and we were done.

We invited his friend Colton Baker over and they had fun running the neighborhood.

Kirstin got sick on Wednesday night and I had to take her to the ER. I was a bit scared when she woke up sobbing and moaning at 1am with a high fever. We were in and out of the ER relatively quickly and back home by 3:45 with the diagnosis of Influenza. They didn't actually test to see if it was H1N1 but she's been pretty miserable most of the weekend. Today her fever finally came down but now she's got a nasty cough. Technically she can go back to school once she's fever free for 24 hours but I think I might try to keep her home an extra day. Last Monday they played one of their last soccer games in the rain with the temp at about 60 degrees. I think that was what pushed her over the edge. She missed the soccer tournament this past saturday. They won 2 games and lost one. I'm not sure where they placed. She was VERY sad to miss the tournament and one of the other key players was out with the flu as well. I was sad for her. She worked so hard this year playing.

Emil M. got to hand out candy all by his self since all Kirstin would have been giving out was sickness. (Don't feel too sad for her I finally let her watch Twlight Halloween night instead. After all the waiting she wasn't that impressed. She thought the acting could have been better. So did I.)

This week I moved Kai's bed to Noah's room. I had asked Noah if he would like to have it in his room so when he had sleepovers he could have an extra bed for his friends and he thought that would be cool. After that I re-arranged Kai's room. Emil suggested that we use his room for a reading room and I loved the idea.

Here's how it looks right now but eventually we may move the two large bookcases in from the playroom. I love it. I'm going to put up some of the extra pictures we have of Kai in there. It's a sunny place to sit and read or just think about Kai. I'm very happy with how it's worked out. A week ago Sunday was six months since he passed and I felt that it was time to make some changes.

On Tuesday I went through all the cards and letters we received after

the funeral and spent some time crying. It's harder for me to look back at that time then it was to live it in some ways. I'm not sure why. I think that part of it may be that I work best when I have a goal or objective. During that time there was so much that needed to get done. So many arrangements that had to be made that I stayed continually focused and that was helpful to me, but remembering it now - all that I think about is the rawness of the emotions. This I find hard. I have found it helpful to take the time, when the emotions hit, to feel them and allow myself time to mourn and cry. For me, this is best done alone. Thankfully the moment never last too terribly long and I can always have the peace of knowing that we will be with Kai again someday. This knowledge is the balm that soothes my heart.